Jewelry Boutique

I live in an average sized town
four bedroom house
pool 12ft deep (we are filling it in once school starts tho)
I drive my own car
marc jacobs sunglasses
tiffany and co jewelry (just small silver necklaces)
coach bags (three....my aunt lives near an outlet where it's super cheap)
cashmere scarves and silk scarves about ten or eleven
beach house in cape cod (my aunt died and gave it to us)
i shop at anthropologie, nordstroms, random consignment shops in Boston, and h&m

i volunteer and help teach swim lessons, am in feminist club, run cross country and am captian, do model un, and volunteer and teach classes at the local art museum, work at three jobs (serioulsy....not fun)

I have friends in Spain and California who go to prep schools, drive BMW's, and have LV bags, so maybe my view of spoiled is skewed, but I always thought i was pretty average.....

Hi im having my 13 bday party. WE are going to a resteraunt and then seeing 27 dresses. what kind of goodie bags shud i give? everywhere i only see like kiddish clear bags. any ideas? also, here is wat im putting in my bags:
1. lots of lip gloss
2. some king of charm or small jewelry from claires
3. blowpops
3. lots of hershey kisses
4. very cheap wristlets
how much of this shud i put it each persons? and is it enough? what else shud i add? im inviting like 16 peeps so it shud be fairly cheap. help!